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Choosing what stays and what goes

From the Founder's Desk

Be unrealistic, be real with yourself about what you loved, and actually give yourself a chance to create the life of your dreams not the one society has conditioned you to accept.

So here is the thing right: you get to choose what comes with you from 2020 and what gets left behind… Shocking, I know 🙂

I first practiced this concept 10 years. I remember like it was yesterday choosing what was going to come with me out of 2010 and into 2011. At the time, it was a boy I was dating (he got left in 2010).

I like to do this practice at the end of every year, in my life and in my business. And this year, I encourage you to do the same.

We get to decide what we loved about this year. And don’t try to tell me nothing, cause I know that’s not true! There will things you did for the first time, things you were forced to try or do differently. What was enjoyable? What made you so happy you want to keep doing it forever?

And here is the thing, right: After a year like we have had, we have been forced to embrace new ways of doing things, probably ways we never even thought possible. And so what I want you to keep in mind when doing this exercise, is nothing is unrealistic.

If you loved not having to get out of your dressing gown all day (I write this from my dressing gown), then choose to take that with you. Choose a life and a business and a 2021 that allows you to be in the comfort of your own home AND making millions at the same time.

Nothing is off the table here. Be unrealistic, be real with yourself about what you loved, and actually give yourself a chance to create the life of your dreams not the one society has conditioned you to accept.

On the other side of the coin, you get to choose what stays in 2021…

This can be a little more tough to work through. This requires some letting go, some releasing. Yes, this could be easy stuff like leaving behind carbs or Netflix.

But the stuff I really want you to look at is the habits, the constructs, the limiting beliefs, the fear. What have you resisted doing for lack of time, for lack of confidence, for lack of experience?

Leave that fear and hesitation in 2020!

Leave behind relationships that don’t support you, clients that don’t appreciate you, friends we don’t believe in you. And this stuff is hard! I get that…

But you get to choose. You get to choose which parts of 2020 stay behind and which parts come with you into 2021 to create the year of your dreams 🙂

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